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I found it hard to make real connections. I was too shy and insecure and lacked communication skills and social skills.

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I was approaching 40 and I did not have the success or happiness in my life that I wanted. I was having problems dating and having problems in the workplace.

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I was also living with a lot of anger. Whatever it was, I would react with anger, which always caused upset and unhappiness. As a matter of fact, most of my other coping skills would also cause upset and unhappiness.

I did an inventory; most of my go-to coping skills were negative and had a negative effect on me, keeping Tbe unhappy, feeling bad about myself, and living in the pain of my wounds.

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All negative ineffective coping skills because they had a negative effect on me and my happiness; they all created upset and unhappiness for me.

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With negative thoughts and negative ineffective coping skillsI lived with bipolar, depression, and anxiety.

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With positive thinking and positive effective coping skillsI live free of mental illness and with freedom and happiness. Yep, this is the result I got when I replaced all the negativity caused by hurt, in my thoughts, beliefs, words, actions, behaviors, perspectives, and coping skills with positivity, created by healing.

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I also sought to overcome my shyness and sensitivity. I was onto something.

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