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No one has starved to death skipping one meal due to their tantrum, but they will remember to think twice before throwing a fit next time you eat out.

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Rule from a position of confidence, firmness, and calmness. Keep them organized under a calm, peaceful, and loving regime of rules a basic few and consequences Both positive rewards and negative sanctions.

Enforce the rules consistently and indifferently. You are merely the scorekeeper and the enforcer of the rules. It is they who are creating their own destinies. Make sure you carve out a life for yourself with your own time and activities that they need to respect and do the same for them.

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Nice post. You do need to have a point of reference from which you can see with some degree of objectivity. Men seem to be able to do this more easily than women.

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A few years ago, my sister and her kids moved in with me, and I became like the second parent. Then, last year, I lost my job and became a full-time, stay-at-home Auntie. So now I am raising year-old and 4-year-old girls, and I lock myself in the bathroom so that I can have five minutes of peace.

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Everybody knows how to change your parenting and have perfect children. There is no such thing as a perfect child. And then they become teens. We had to have collision work on the cars after they became drivers. Think about things you did when you were a teen!

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The past looks better to us because we only think about the good parts and not the bad. So well said! But of course, I know that one, six or any amount of children is a ta,e.

That shock when you bring the second one into the world and start to get situated at home is, well, truly eye opening. Anyway, thanks for this amazingly well written article. Us parents need these reminders sometimes. It is only in this past few years that I have grandchildren and know that my children know that there is no such thing as a perfect parent, and they have it much azomeone than I ever did, do I allow myself to work on ridding myself from the burden of guilt asomelne plagued me for so many years.

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People can an to this. People need to hear this. So thank you! Thanks Brea — and I agree — we all need the permission to be imperfect. Thanks so much for the encouragement!

This was honest and real. Which is what parenting should be. We should stop telling everyone that our marriage is great, our kids are amazing and perfect, and life is wonderful all the time. It is nice to hear someone be real. Give yourself a break. Looking for asomeone to take care of me and my 3kids always true on this, fare to say!

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I need that. My husband and I also endured years of infertility, and have now found ourselves with four boys: Some days — many days — are tough. I am grateful every day to have them, but like you said, I am a person and I have limits. When people tell you to enjoy your children while they are young, please accept that admonition in the spirit it is given. Give some grace!

I have said that to young parents many times myself, although I will hesitate in the future!! By no means does saying that imply that I did everything perfectly, nor did I literally enjoy every second of raising my 4 children, who were born in a span of 6 years. What you cannot possibly know is what lies in the future in regard to child rearing.

At this point in time, you are physically exhausted. The issues you face are of such greater consequence as your children grow older, and the pain of watching your teens or older suffer consequences of their poor choices can be unimaginable to you at the stage you are in now. It stems from precious memories of years gone by; gone by way too fast! VJLindsey, I think your comment is spot on. The only addendum I think it needs is that everyone expects teenagers to be a giant hassle.

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The only difference is most people know that the teenage years are difficult and believe that the young years are always great. Perhaps I will think the same way when both I and my kids are older. Steve, your story made me feel human for having such occasions. The holding underwater just to the point of panic comment is hilarious. I appreciate this article more than you know. I am so tired of people telling me to enjoy them now — I DO — but can I please also enjoy a moment in the bathroom without demands for my cell phone games?

For the record…. My two kids are teens now. I remember not too long ago when they were toddlers and doing what little kids are good at—-driving their parents crazy sometimes.

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