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Men know the pain and frustration they cause themselves by allowing their inadequacies to exist and take full responsibility for that pain. This drives them to eliminate that pain from its source and create a happier, more fulfilling life in the process. I was living like a boy! I am going to be a man now! This is complete bullshit: The Problem is that you were raised by a single mother to become a pussy whipped Man child. You seem very focussed fnu blaming someone else for College guy just looking for a fun girl position in life rather than taking responsibility for what you contributed Point 4 and Just reading the 21 headings is a great reminder.

Very empowering. I might include the reading of them in my daily morning ritual. I think daily reminders are a great way juxt go. Are you seriously asking this fucking question?

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The motive to become a real man is for yourself. Damn what everyone else is talking about!

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Great list, but I would like to point out 20 contradicts point Point 12 is more about theories and information about life rather than personal opinions about yourself.

Also, where are all women instead of girls then? And what makes females think they can demand men? I actually only needed one — Dependence vs. But, if I just put one, then guys struggle to see how that one point plays in many different areas of their life.

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So, I put 20 so that can see all the different ways this point appears in their life. There was also no insinuation that boys were better than Men. The question you have to ask yourself is: If I were to write an article about for women, it would be as useless as writing an Meet milfs from Madisonville about cats.

There are a lot of boys and girls running around. The infantile side of us pulls strongly if let it control us.

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The big question is: Is it possible to feel vulnerable and powerful at the same time while expressing my deepest thoughts? I know it might not seem like it, but they are.